Loss of a parent

The loss of a parent can be extremely difficult, no matter what age they pass. We expect that they will pass, but the experience is still shocking and overwhelming. We often experience our friends, coworkers and even our relatives minimizing the experience of the loss of older adults. This sometimes creates more difficulties and it is often met with expectations to ‘move on’ rather quickly. There are expectations to continue your work, resume child responsibilities, and manage your home just as how it was before. Most people struggle with the emotions that come with the loss of their parents. They also struggle in other areas of their lives because of these cultural misconceptions. Our goal at our clinic is to work with you on restoring balance in your life. With a loss of this kind sometimes comes a re-evaluation of the self and the people that are in your life. This may come with a refocusing of life goals and examining personal priorities. Debera Umberson’s text, Death of a Parent: Transition to a New Adult Identity states, “the death of a parent is more confrontational than other deaths because children so strongly identify with parents that witnessing a parent’s death means witnessing the death of a part of oneself.” In our sessions, we work on helping you find peace with the questions you may have and how to go about accepting the changes in your life.

Session discussions may include:

  • How to manage with the psychological distress

  • Managing with the fundamental sense of loss

  • Managing with your physical health during this crisis

  • Understanding terminal illness and sudden death

  • How you are your remaining parent

We can never be fully prepared for the loss of a parent. Saying goodbye to the people who gave us life is difficult. We prepare you with the tools and resources to help you mourn and manage grief. We work through obstacles that you may experience and we challenge our clients to stay with the emotions that help facilitate growth and healthy recovery. Find out how our counselling program can help.

Umberson, D. (2003). Death of a Parent: Transition to a New Adult Identity. United States: Cambridge University Press. 

Loss of a Spouse

Loss of a Parent

The relationship that exists between yourself and your partner is unique. Your grief is unique, too. Every widow or widower will grieve differently. Our team of psychotherapists will help you manage your feelings and give you the tools necessary to facilitate healthy mourning.

Find out how our counselling clinic can help you find peace.

The loss of a very first love, a parent, can be quite devastating. No matter what age you are the death of a parent is shocking. If there are feelings of helplessness and lack of control our goal is to help provide resources to bring perspective and awareness to facilitate growth and stability. Every person who is grieving the loss of a parent will find support through our counselling program.

Loss of a Pet

Your beloved animal has passed and we are deeply sorry for your loss. Most pet owners consider their pets a part of their family. They feel the loss of their pet deeply and that sometimes can take time to process. We want to support you through your journey of the mourning the loss of your pet. Please find out how we can help.